Protocols...

I’m torn.  I used to trust Dr. BFP but now I’m not so sure.  Maybe I jinxed him by naming him Dr. BFP?

When the nurse called to tell me my cycle was cancelled she said they had put me on the long lupron protocol because I was young and healthy and they thought the endo was mostly blocking my tubes, but my ovaries responded like I was about 10 years older.  What bothers me is that most of the other endo girls I’ve talked to were never put on the LLP because they’re docs expected their ovaries to act older than they are.  Why didn’t my doc know this?

Maybe this is what I get for going to Motel Six instead of the Ritz Carlton?

I’ve always wanted to see Dr. Sher in Vegas but the stress of travelling has been a big part of holding me back, and of course the cost… 

Currently I’m trying to convince Dr. BFP that instead of the microdose flare protocol he wants me to use he should put me on the agonist / antagonist conversion with estrogen priming protocol (A/ACP+e2v) that Dr. Sher recommends.  I have a feeling he’ll fight it hard, or just say no.  I ran the idea of immunological implantation issues by him when we had our first consult and I could tell he wasn’t a big Dr. Sher fan…

So now I’m torn, do I proceed with a cheap cycle with Dr. BFP and see how it goes, then go with the big guns with Dr. Sher if it doesn’t work?  Or do I switch right away if Dr. BFP won’t try this protocol? 

If I start travelling for IVF I will have to tell my work about it and I’m not really ready for that, there are so many things to worry about now, I miss the care-free girl I was 2 weeks ago.

Is blogger broken again?

Not sure if it’s just me or what but I can’t seem to comment on anyone’s blog today, not even my own…  So I apologize again for not being the best ICLW participant, I swear I’m trying!

Indulgance

It’s my first ICLW and I took 2 days off blogging/commenting!  Sorry for being a slacker but now I’m back, I promise.  I’ve linked to some of my older posts that you might find interesting if you’re new to my blog, I think they show up as pink words.

Blue and I had a great weekend with friends and family.  I was feeling pretty mad at the universe because I had done EVERYTHING right and still wasn’t any closer to being pregnant, so I did everything I’ve denied myself lately.

I ate Gluten, I ate dairy, I drank coffee, I drank wine, beer, champagne, etc. I rode jet skis.  I lived my life.  No regrets.

I’m back on the train for a bit though; I’ll be good again until we leave for Europe (in 7 days!)  While we’re there I’ll be stocked up on Cel.ebre.x for the pain and La.ctai.d for the tummy.

I feel like more has happened in the last week than I am even able to process and I’m a little mentally overwhelmed by it.  Blue came home, it’s been incredible to have him home but that means less sit and process time for me which I guess in the wake of the shitty ovaries revelation is probably a good thing.

I processed these things about myself/Blue/TTC since Tuesday while explaining to people why we had to cancel this IVF...

1. I have to Deal with the ovaries I’ve been dealt.  I was given shitty rapidly ageing ones and now I just have to play the game a little different.
2. I really want to be pregnant.
3. Neither Blue or I care about having a biological child, we just want a child.
4. I’m not ready to consider adoption because it means I wouldn’t get to carry my child and I really want that experience at least once.
5. I care more about our babies having Blue’s genes than mine, his are better.
6. I’d like to try at least once more with my eggs, but I’m totally OK with moving on to donor eggs in the near future.

I’m actually torn because at this point we’re just ready for a child and I hate to keep wasting time and energy on a futile cause...  So here is to hoping this isn’t a futile cause and this next attempt at IVF will bring us our little miracle.

Welcome ICLWers!

Welcome ICLWers!  This is my first time participating and I’m excited to find new blogs to follow! 

As the title of my blog suggests, I am just another endo girl trying to make a baby in the arctic.  I blog about the rollercoaster called infertility, sometimes I get down in the dumps but I try hard to get back up as quick as possible.

Here is a quick recap of the last 2 years…

Dropped the BC, laughed about baby names, cried every time AF showed, had endo surgery, Dx with stage 3 endo, cried some more, tried clomid, went gluten and dairy free, tried acupuncture, tried IVF, found out my ovaries are old.

The old ovaries thing is new.  I found out last Tuesday that I wasn’t responding to IVF meds very well.  Tuesday was a very bad day but I’ve been able to find some light in the darkness.  Blue, my fabulous hubby, and I are going to Europe for three weeks starting next week and I plan to eat as much pasta, cheese and wine as I can get my hands on. 

I hope you’ll follow me on this crazy ride and I hope I make you laugh along the way.

Reasons I Should Be Happy

I made this list as a reminder of the good things for when I get down in the dumps.  So in an effort to return to positive Polly, here are the positive things that came from the rollercoaster of the last few weeks.

Blue is Home

Everything is easier to survive now that he is home.  He doesn’t know what to say but just the fact that he’s calm and gives good hugs helps a lot.

Time

Because the stars aligned and we were able to start our cycle early we found out that my ovaries are shitty earlier.  If we had waited it would have been that much harder to hear.  As it is now we need to take a month off anyway and we just happen to be spending the next month in Europe.  Maybe the stars aligned again... 

Wine

I get to drink wine in Italy.  I’m not sure this requires an explanation.

Bikini

I will be laying on a Croatian beach, much like the one pictured above in about 2 weeks.  I will be wearing a bikini and there will be no bruises on my belly or butt.  I also hope that the damn Lupron bloating will have gone down…

Jetskiing

Memorial day weekend at my parents cabin.  I will go jet skiing and I will not worry about shaking out the baby.

Withered Ovaries

Here is the story now that I’ve had time to process and cry and then cry some more.

I thought that I had mentally prepared myself for everything that could go wrong with this cycle. I was prepared to hear I over-stimulated and needed to hold off on transfer.  I was prepared to hear we had to stim a few extra days.  I was prepared to hear we had no embryos left to freeze.  I was even prepared for a BFN. 

I was not prepared to hear that my ovaries responded like a 40 year olds should.  I was not prepared to have my entire cycle cancelled.  Even with the low follicle count at the ultra sound the word “cancelled” never even crossed my mind.

How could I have been so unprepared??  I was so worried about being positive Polly that I let myself get blindsided.  I don’t think I’ve ever cried for as long or as hard as I did yesterday, talk about an emotional wreck.

I thought that the low follicle count was the bad news, it wasn’t.  They want your CD8 E2 levels to be above 800 and mine were at 79.  That’s right, a whopping 79.  I basically didn’t respond at all.  The follicles that the ultra sound tech told me about were too small to consider according to my doctor.  I had only one 10 mm follicle and that’s what they’d expect to see from a normal woman on a normal cycle with no meds. 

Isn’t endometriosis enough?  I always knew I’d been dealt a rough hand with the endo and associated pain and infertility, but I just assumed that was it.  I guess it wasn’t and I wasn’t prepared to hear it.  Now I have a whole lot more to worry about.

The path forward is to stop all meds, have a period, start BCPs (so I can enjoy Europe with less pain) and then start the next cycle when we get home.  The new protocol will be microdose flare.  I really don’t even know what that means yet.  I don’t know anything right now but to breathe through it and distract myself until I can be alone and break down again.

I would really appreciate any advice (or happy stories you’ve heard) from girls who’ve been poor responders to the long lupron protocol and where they went from there.  If you’d like you can email me at lindsey(dot)l(dot)hunter(at)gmail(dot)com.

Cancelled

I can't really write more now but we're offically cancelling this cycle.  I'll write again when I can breathe.

A Little Disappointed

We went in for our first follie check today.  I’m disappointed… Maybe I shouldn’t be, maybe it’s premature but I’m still down in the dumps.

I had 4 or 5 follies over 9 mm on my right ovary and 2 or 3 over 8 mm on my left.  There were a few other small ones that I doubt will amount to much.  Seven decent follies feels really mediocre.  I’m not used to being mediocre.

Hopefully the doc will call before 2 pm and let me know what the plans are because right now I’m feeling pretty low. 

Guess now I’ll go G.oog.le the crap out of follicle counts and ooccyte outcomes…

...Update...

My nurse just said that my estrodiol levels are really low and asked if I'm taking all my meds.  This can't be good.  I'm freaking out.

Blue is home!

This weekend was fabulous!  Blue came home Saturday morning and we made the most of our weekend.  It was so fun to go out and do things with out being the 3^rd wheel (or other odd numbered wheel).  He has given me all of my shots since he got in, which is awesome!  Something about not actually sticking myself makes it go a little smoother and quicker.

Tomorrow is my first estrodiol draw and ultra-sound to check how many follies we’re cooking up.  I’m nervous and anxious which is silly because no matter if I’m cooking 1 or 50 there isn’t anything I can do about it.

I’ve done everything right.  I haven’t eaten gluten or dairy.  I quit caffeine and alcohol.  I’ve been resting and avoiding high impact work outs.  I’ve taken all the appropriate vitamins and herbs (27 pills/day).  I’ve been getting weekly acupuncture. 

I’ll repeat it, I’ve done everything right, but somehow just saying it doesn’t make me any less worried…  Will my stupid endo ovaries fail me?

Started Stims... Still Alive

Turns out I am a spaz.  I was so worried about the Follistim pen that I rushed home from work to watch a youtube video of how to work it.  Its super easy, that’s probably the point of the pen huh?  So while I watched the video I put everything together, I guess I expected it to take an hour because when it was all ready (after the 4 minute video) it was 6:15 and I don’t take my meds until 7… so then I sulked away and watched the Voice (which is fabulous) for the next 45 mins until it was time for my shots.

It also turns out that sticking yourself with two needles isn’t really that much harder than one needle.  My ovaries were already hurting before the Follistim though so I’m expecting some significant pain for the next week.

In case you were wondering, endometriosis sucks.  I’m sure that it presents differently in every endo girl, but for me, when I have ovary pain my legs go numb from my hips to my knees.  It’s a really awkward, painful, strange feeling.  I haven’t had it much since I went gluten free but now it’s back and in action, which surprises me because I always assumed it was from ovarian cysts and I know I don’t have any right now.

Well, the point of this story is that I’m afraid heavy ovaries may translate to a week of hell for me, a week where I can’t take any Celebrex, which is the only thing that works on the pain.  I’m sad too because Blue is just getting home and I just want to have fun with him, not lay around on the couch miserable.