tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post1888609270706299235..comments2023-05-16T05:43:08.793-07:00Comments on Adventures of Endo & Pregnancy in the Arctic: I reclaim this blog as my ownLindseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03806744763433165902noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-62557764603887884442011-11-30T11:50:00.909-08:002011-11-30T11:50:00.909-08:00I'm only 12 days late to this party, but what ...I'm only 12 days late to this party, but what the hell!<br /><br />This is your blog, and you are entitled for it to be so! You've been through so much to get to this point, and it's made you who you are. And you deserve to have a voice on your own blog, dammit! :)unaffectedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01847927139783349391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-67596775737478043822011-11-22T08:31:02.107-08:002011-11-22T08:31:02.107-08:00I have been thinking about this for weeks now and ...I have been thinking about this for weeks now and writing, then deleting blog posts. Last night I decided to publish it. It's so hard when you are empathetic to those still in the midst of TTC/IF/miscarriage to let go and write about your feelings once you become pregnant. Same goes with facebook - what to share, what not to share. It's such a pull of emotions. Thanks for this post!Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11981961310471707388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-3264504491902160102011-11-19T15:40:34.869-08:002011-11-19T15:40:34.869-08:00I can see this being tough after making connection...I can see this being tough after making connections with others, especially if they are still fighting for their happy ending. I have the same issue but opposite...I find myself not writing certain things bc those that have their positives after fighting are reading. At the end of the day though, they are our blogs, no one else's. We started them to help us and it is the choice of the readers to read. If they are offended or no longer can relate or want to share in your story, they are free to go. So write. Post. Put up pictures. Be you :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-84471466641561596262011-11-19T12:29:38.562-08:002011-11-19T12:29:38.562-08:00This is absolutely your blog... and it is for you ...This is absolutely your blog... and it is for you :) I can't imagine that anyone would take offence... and if they do, then they're not worth worrying about. You are such a great support for everyone else and have been through so much.... great that you are reclaiming your blog :)) Looking forward to reading your posts and being on this journey with you xoxoDandelionBreezehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988561541523178095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-78366077896081089472011-11-19T12:21:40.949-08:002011-11-19T12:21:40.949-08:00Good for you Linds! :) I have felt this way seve...Good for you Linds! :) I have felt this way several times too, but we gotta do what is best for us and we are pregnant and have had a hard time getting where we are. It ain't always going to be pretty! :) Reclaim away, I look forward to more updates! xoxoGood Timinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02057857436371668151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-73984212281301834862011-11-19T08:09:45.803-08:002011-11-19T08:09:45.803-08:00I love your blog! And thanks for still being a sup...I love your blog! And thanks for still being a support to me! I hope you write about everything! I'm especially interested in hearing how things go (not only because I've followed your story for awhile and LIKE you), but because I have some similar issues that Dr. Sher found.<br />Hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-44250176654724975702011-11-18T17:35:51.622-08:002011-11-18T17:35:51.622-08:00This is your blog, your space to write your though...This is your blog, your space to write your thoughts! If someone gets offended of feels it brings them down then they shouldn't read it. People shouldn't get angry because you're pregnant, you've been thru a lot and have the right to be happy and enjoy your pregnancy or complain when not feeling ok. I love reading your updates and will be here with you thru this journey.Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16128069600160850918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-2602078917209119292011-11-18T16:52:10.694-08:002011-11-18T16:52:10.694-08:00Write on sistah! I, for one, like to read about t...Write on sistah! I, for one, like to read about the light at the end of the tunnel and I'll absolutely read your new stuff - with gusto! Being offended is a choice if you ask me... well unless you're being an outright jerk which we all know you're not. So don't worry about choices others make. Write what you need to write and post that belly if you want! It's not like you're some chick who got pregnant the first month of "trying" and will now write an entire blog telling infertile people to relax.<br /><br />PS - I dig the new header.Hapa Hopeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15390505849217183486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-75582008311684447162011-11-18T16:49:39.538-08:002011-11-18T16:49:39.538-08:00I feel the same way as you. I have rarely blogged ...I feel the same way as you. I have rarely blogged this entire pregnancy for fear of hurting someone. It's hard to be a PIF, because I honestly do feel a little guilty that we were successful and others are still struggling.averyswifelizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11445983677973230542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-26030477870602521902011-11-18T15:25:21.739-08:002011-11-18T15:25:21.739-08:00I completely agree with you! It's more hurtful...I completely agree with you! It's more hurtful for me for a PIF to seemingly turn their backs on her fellow infertiles that stood by her side through her journey by starting a new blog. I'm glad you've decided to stay put! I can't speak for all infertiles, but I personally don't have a big issue seeing PIF u/s pics, belly shots, and updates. I doubt pregnancy is a cake walk, you're entitled to complain! I complain about our infertility all the time, why shouldn't you get that same luxury?! I look forward to seeing your upcoming and candid posts!socialite_babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903131540408145568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-59222043538089965542011-11-18T13:10:07.005-08:002011-11-18T13:10:07.005-08:00Oh thank god! I'm so glad you're not star...Oh thank god! I'm so glad you're not starting a new one. As someone still in the trenches, for me it's even more annoying when a PIF starts a new blog than it is to read her honest, real thoughts. Bring it on. If I ever have a problem with it, it's my problem and I'll unsubscribe! :)The Cornfed Feministhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05049764462275577386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647064118297768039.post-48958432930749771812011-11-18T11:57:07.322-08:002011-11-18T11:57:07.322-08:00You are my soul sister friend. I have a very simil...You are my soul sister friend. I have a very similar post ready to go for Sunday - although for a different reason obviously. Can't wait to see you this afternoon! Woo-Hoo Breaking Dawn!S.I.F.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15037271343194689612noreply@blogger.com